Heavy raingear required…
Mealtime video
WARNING- wear a facemask before viewing!
The Worst feeling in the world…
Yesterday E went to visit a prospective daycare, which happens to be located 2 blocks away, is run by a nice Chinese lady, and they have an opening in September. To be honest, our chances of getting e into a daycare is pretty slim due to the high demand, but then this one came out of nowhere, and seems to fit our criteria almost perfectly… Hmmm, strange forces are at work here…
As the meeting was 6, it threw off our schedule a bit. e’s solid feeding was pretty tough, and we needed multiple wet paper towels to clean her, and the feeding area up. In between, we had to finish making our dinner and wolf it down quickly as we wanted to get a Superstore run in.
I think our minds were preoccupied with a lot of things- looking for a house, leaving e at a daycare, E returning to work, calling daycare references, etc.
As we drove into the parking lot, we automatically went through our routine- I put on the ergo carrier without the shoulder straps, E gets baby and transfers her over… very similar to the Emporer Penguins and their egg transfer. E puts baby into the carrier facing me, and as I lean back to slide the shoulder straps on, the waist belt pops open and e drops to the pavement…
It was one of those moments where things happen so fast you’re in disbelief. E wheels around and yells something, and all I notice after the pop is that I can’t feel e’s weight against me. E is the first to get to e, and by this time baby is screaming. Her nose is scraped up pretty good, and there’s a welt on her forehead. This is the worst feeling in the world…
We quickly assess what’s happening. It’s a good thing she’s crying loudly…. as it means she didn’t lose consciousness and likely no concussion. Limbs are ok, no blood coming from inside nose and a tiny bit from her lip. Nothing to indicate we need to call 911 or turn myself into the bad parent police.
We rush her home and ran a warm bath. She calmed down in the car, so that’s another good sign. As I was taking her diaper shirt off, the poor thing was sniffling… and I remember it’s that stuffy feeling when you get bonked on the nose by a football. If her nose was broken, there would be a lot more swelling, blood, and tears… so I was pretty sure it wasn’t broken. In her bath, she was acting normally, splashing around playing with her ducks, and we didn’t see any more bruises or scrapes. I held her for awhile until she was ready for sleep, then stayed in her room until she fell asleep.
The ergo carrier has a plastic common buckle, like you see on most backpacks, that closes at your waist at your back. When I closed it, I must not have pushed fully… so that the carrier stayed on my waist, but would not hold any weight. Furthermore, the ergo has an extra safety feature- a piece of fabric that you slide the male end of the buckle through, so if it accidently disengages, the fabric would catch it.
The problem is that when I wear it, i have to pull the strap through the piece of fabric, and you can bypass the safety feature when buckling up again. Plus the fact that the buckle is behind you, and you can’t visually see it close. So big safety lesson learned- slide the buckle through the safety catch, and listen/feel the snap. I shudder to think what might have happened if she landed differently.
We both had a sleepness night thinking of what happened, and the other lesson I’ve learned is to put all distractions aside when handling baby. All that other stuff can be discussed after baby goes to sleep.
The good news is that e is back to her normal self today. She won’t get any dates this weekend, but I’m fine with that. 🙂 I don’t think E and I have been this scared before, and so when I gave her a hug today, it had extra meaning…
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New photos
Finally got around to uploading photos from “Hats off day” “Grandpa’s b-day” and some additional baby photos in “Erica”
Let me know if the upload time is acceptable, or if I need to change the filesizes. I have the originals, so if you see something you want to print, I can email it off to you.
Erica at 9 months!
Q3 came to a close a few days ago, and it’s hard to imagine that we’re 3/4 of the way through the first year already!
Yesterday we finished our swim lessons. I’m still amazed at how much these infants take to, and enjoy the water. I don’t think I learned to swim until I was at least 5 or 6, and I remember some trepidation at the first few times I went into the deep end. But infants this young don’t really have any fear, and sure they get annoyed when they get water up their noses, down the wrong pipe, or in their ears, but a quick timeout to recover and they’re right back in it. And the little buggers learn fast- when we count to 3, e will close her eyes and mouth in preparation for the dunk…
Mind you she still sticks out her tongue to taste the pool water, so maybe she still has a few more things to learn. In the end, she clearly enjoys it, and we don’t mind getting up on Saturday AM to do this. We’ll enrol her into the same class, even though we know the routine. The kids don’t go to “Duck” level until 18 mos.
Another change or development in e’s behaviour is when we put her down to play, then walk away, she puts up a verbal fuss/whine… as if to say, come back here, don’t leave me. We then give a quick verbal response that we’re still nearby, and to not fuss. The thing we want to avoid is to run back to her as she’ll quickly figure out that this is the way to get what she wants.
Raspberries are still going strong, as is the baby talk- baa baa baa, maaap, maaap, etc. She has much better control of her hands- clenching and unclenching both of her hands, clapping her hands, and grasping at items… and it seems she’s starting to prefer solids to her formula, and drinking water from a sippy cup or straw.
She’s interacting with her enviroment a lot more- whether it be staring outside at trees, watching and grasping at the cats, or listening to her story CD. It doesn’t take much to make her giggle- E and I both agree that she’s a lot of fun at this age!
A couple of weeks back, Peter, our friend who is living and working in Japan came for a visit! He was in town for a wild and too brief visit, but we managed to get together for a nice dinner. Here’s a photo of Uncle Peter and little e, and we asked him to take, what I believe is our first, family photo together. If you notice that I’m a bit red, no I did not get sunburned and I am fully sober…
So Jennifer introduced E and I to facebook. Now E has probably doubled her time in front of the computer. 😉
I have to say that facebook came as a bit of a surprise to me in terms of how quickly it’s grown in popularity. They say that communities are being created by these services- LinkedIN, Blogs, MSN Messenger, YouTube… and this one seems here to stay. I almost use E as a litmus test, if she’s into it, then it’s easy to use and will have a high adoption rate. I think she’s posting all her pictures on it.
I still prefer to blog- and will continue to post photos here… as long as I don’t use up Lester’s bandwidth. 🙂
Welcome Lauren Yu!
So my niece, Erica’s 1st cousin arrived on Mother’s day!
Going to visit Elaine and Gord in the birthing suite brought back a lot of memories, and a reminder of how difficult, yet rewarding it is to bring a baby into this world. It also reminded us of the first few days and weeks… those were certainly some challenging days, hard to imagine that anyone can survive them… but everyone gets through it.
It also reminded us that as new parents there are a couple of requests- keep the hospital visits very short, and for the first few weeks/month at home, call before you visit, keep the visits short, and bring a home cooked meal 🙂
So who does Lauren look like? Hard to tell at this stage, but Gord says she’s more like Ernie than Bert. 😐 Anyways, congratulations! It was a tough delivery, but everyone is healthy and safe!
Erica is 9 months tomorrow, and is about 18lbs, 5oz. That’s triple her birth weight. We have one more swim lesson to go. Last lesson, we dunked her head under about 10 times, and each time she closed her eyes and mouth. Good girl! However she still stuck her tongue out to taste the pool water. 🙁
We’re thinking of signing up for another set of lessons, not that we’ll learn anything new as it’s fairly repetitious, but because it’s nice to get out on a Saturday AM, and she really likes to kick and swim. The side effect is when we give her a bath- we really get a splashfest!
There's a Tilapia in the middle and she can't get out??
Erica’s now 8 months old, and has 6 swim lessons under her diaper. There’s a game similar to “Ring around the rosie” where you pick an animal or fish, and you go with your baby into the middle of the circle. The others then swim around you singing “there’s a (duck, marlin, shark, etc) in the middle and she can’t get out… what is she going to do?” At that point you say “bubbles!” and submerge your baby under to escape the ring. Clever.
When it was Erica’s turn, Evonne said “she’s a Tilapia!” Teresa looked puzzled… obviously it was a new one for her. 🙂
So life at 8 months… wow, 2/3 of the way to a year. She’s still doing raspberries, more complex babbling “mah-mah, bah-bah”, and her manual dexterity is really improving- grabbing and reaching for objects with accuracy. She can pretty much sit up and stay stable without too much worry, although we bought some foam pieces to lay on our rug from Toy’s R us. It’s like 4 giant puzzle pieces that fit together. It’s great because she can spit up, and it’s easy to wipe up.
As for culinary exposure- yams, chicken, potato, peas, spinach, applies, pears, blueberries, and congee.
I’m hungry now…
Starfish…
When E told me she had signed e for swim lessons, my first thought was cool! Erica can learn to swim like the baby on Nirvana’s Nevermind CD cover http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Image:NirvanaNevermindalbumcover.jpg… except for the dingly dangly.
My next thought was- swimming pool full of infants… what happens if there’s an “accident”… and believe me, they will happen.
Enter- swim diapers. Yes, swim diapers. Who comes up with these ideas? Aren’t diapers supposed to absorb liquid? What happens when you immerse one in a swimming pool? Anyways, they seemed to do the job. One swim diaper website advertised that “products are proven to significantly reduce the chances of the deadly E. coli bacteria from being released into water by infants and toddlers.” Lovely.
The next surprise was when E told me that the swim lessons last 30 min, and occur over the next 9 Saturday AMs. So much for sleeping in. 🙁
So how do you teach an infant how to swim, what do you do for an entire 30 min lesson, and can I bring my mask/snorkel? I had no idea.
E then tells me that I’m going into the pool alone… and that she didn’t want to go in. Alone? Me and e, with a bunch of other mom and tots?? sigh…
Saturday morning comes, it’s pouring rain out, and we pack up for the pool. When we get there, we notice that there’s a Male change room, Female change room, and a Family change room. Family change room? I don’t get it. We haul our stuff there, and yes, the room was packed with kids of all ages plus their parents trying to change, shower, etc. There are big stalls that the entire family can go in to change and shower. Still, after years of understanding that “boys go in there; girls go over there” I feel a bit uncomfortable at the setup.
Luckily we changed e into her swimsuit and swimdiaper beforehand, so she’s set to go. I had to hunt around for an open locker/stall while dodging kids and strollers and other parents.
Enter the chaos. When we get to the pool area, it was crowded like Superstore on a Sunday afternoon. The pool was packed with lessons of all sorts. Chairs were setup all around the pool, 2 or 3 rows deep so fully clothed parents could sit, watch, and take pics of their kids. And every chair was taken up.
I asked a lifeguard where to go, and he pointed to the Starfish sign where 7 other babies/parents were gathered. Our instructor, Teresa, is an asian girl in her 20s. E says she’s cute. Hmm, maybe this won’t be so bad after all. 🙂
So, lots of other babies… from 6 mos to about 14 months in age. All wearing swim diapers and looking a bit bewildered. I couldn’t blame e for looking all around as there was so much to take in. We all wade into the shallow area, and have a seat. The water is nice and warm. I’m thinking, ok so we now take turns diving to the bottom to retrieve a weighted soother or something like that… Nope. As Teresa explains, we’ll pretty much do the same thing every week and do lots of repitition cuz babies don’t really remember that much, especially since lessons are once a week. The first thing we start off is with a song. Song?? Singing?? What about the front crawl or breast stroke? 😐
First song is “The wheels on the bus go round and round.” Of course I don’t know all the words, I though it was “wheels on the bus go round and round…. all day long” In fact it’s “all through the town.” And of course I don’t know all the other verses… like the “wipers on the bus go swish swish swish” and “the babies on the bus go wah wah wah!” Yes I felt like going “wah wah wah”… incidently I had a chuckle as I remember Jim Dickson saying, after riding BC Transit on a hot day “the people on the bus stink like sweat….”
Erica seemed really happy/smiley when she saw everyone around her singing and having a good time. We tried “bubbles” exercise… where we’re trying to get them to blow in the water. e stuck her mouth in the water and tried to drink it. Then she stuck her tongue out and tried to taste it. 😐
After that, we went over to the deeper end, and sang “Motorboat, motorboat” “Ring around the Rosie” and “Humpty dumpty.” We put them on the edge of the pool and got them used to jumping in. Other exercises had them float on their tummy or float on their backs. It seemed that each infant took turns crying because they got water in their eyes or too much in their mouths. I had e too close the water on her front, and i think she took in a good mouthful. Then I had an upset baby to deal with. All in all, I think she had a lot of fun. She did lots of kicking and splashing with her arms.
I was surprised at how much these babies liked and could adapt to the water. I suppose it’s natural, as they spent 9 months in a watery environment, and there’s absolutely no fear for them.
On another note, it seems like my Winter conditioning and muscle building program is paying off… it’s only March and I’m ready for the beaches. 😉







