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Breaking the Minivan barrier
When Erica was born, we brought her home in my ’00 Maxima. I’ll have to admit that the car seat wasn’t the easiest to attach, particularly the models that can face forward or backward. Moreover, you have the option to anchor it via your car’s seatbelt or the tethering system. Much to my dismay, the Max didn’t have the attachment points for the tethering system, so we had to use the seatbelts. Done correctly, it felt pretty solid once you put all your weight on the carseat, and ratchet the seatbelt as much as you can without herniating something.
However, the Max was a 5 speed manual, and even though it was a mid size sedan with a good sized trunk… it had to go… for something bigger…
Next up was the Automatic S320. Yep… it sure was bigger… and probably the most solid car I’ve ever driven. For a full size sedan, it had lots of room for the car seat. Being an older car, it didn’t have the tethering system, and you could not ratchet the seatbelts to cinch the seats down. With the newer seatbelts, you can pull them all the way out, and then feed it back in, but if you pulled on it, it would lock right away. This allows you to cinch something tightly and have it hold. You can’t do that with the seat belts in older cars. If you get into an accident, it will do its job and lock, however if you do a medium speed swerve, it is possible the carseat… and kid… could swing out. There was also no attachment at the base of the rear window to attach the top strap to. So even though the car could stop a bullet, and mow over a SMART car like a speedbump, it didn’t have the latest safety stuff for the car seats.
Next up was the 525i. By this time, we has Sammo, so yes, 2 car seats in a midsize sedan. It’s amazing how much room the car seats take up, and it was a challenge to get the kids in and out without bumping their head into the doorframe. The seatbelts also didn’t ratchet tightly, and it didn’t have the tethering system. Even worse, I found out that one of the seatbelts popped loose if you yanked and wiggled it a certain way. Even though it was a reasonable daily driver, we had to get something else.
That something else started by looking for sliding doors… and that mean something van-ish. Our other criteria was to get something that seats 7, so even with the 2 car seats, we could take on additional passengers if needed. It came down to 3 options:
1) Mitsubishi Delica Spacegear- a 4wd, turbo diesel, 7 seater complete with rally lights and bush bar. There are youtube pictures of this thing being driven through waist deep rivers and plowing over terrain that would eat a Honda CRV. Not fast, but it goes anywhere and is tough tough tough… for a van. Some have a sky lite roof– like those you see in tour buses… and c’mon, it has curtains! How cool is that. Here’s a video showing what it looks like. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g7q6pf1C4AE
You can get one from Japan with reasonable mileage (under 75,000km) for under 15K. The drawback? They are RHD. I’m sure one can get used to it in time, but there’s rumors that BC and some other provinces want to ban them. There are some studies out there claiming that RHDs get into more accidents, but come on… these things take 15s to go from 0-60mph, and they have mirrors all over the place and have great visibility. I can’t see too many of them getting into accidents, but aside from that, they are full on 4WD, reasonable mileage (diesel engine), fairly reliable, very roomy and practical… but the RHD was enough of a negative to rule it out for us.
2) Mazda 5- we first saw one while camping a few years back. I wasn’t sure what to make of it- it had the sliding doors, and sort of looked like a big hatchback a la Toyota Matrix. On paper, it had a lot going for it- 4 cylinder=reasonable gas mileage, sliding doors, and seats 6. We took a look at it in person and found that it was well thought out in terms of how you can configure the seats and it had clever storage options. The driver’s seat and driving position was just like that of a Mazda 3 hatchback, so was more car than van. It certainly maximized and made good use of space. The only thing was that the rear seats would be pretty tight for an adult, but doable if you moved the middle row around. It’s sort of like sitting in a 737 economy class. You can just fit in, but you’re not looking forward to the next 5 hours.
All in all, it makes the most out of the available space. In the end we passed on it as we wanted something a bit bigger so that a) long roadtrips would be more comfy, b) V6 is better on the highway, c) extra space for carrying stuff, and d) extra passenger space.
3) Finally we looked at the minivans- Odysseys, Siennas, and MPVs. The MPV is the smallest in the class, but that’s not necessarily a bad thing. They no longer make it, so the price was the best of the 3; but do you want to buy something that’s no longer made? That plus a spotty record for the automatic tranny was enough to cross it off our list. We drove a rented domestic minivan last year, and I just didn’t like the feel of it, so we crossed the domestics off our list.
I’ve never owned a Honda before, but we took a pretty close look at some used ones. The problem was $$$- they are the most expensive all things being equal. That narrowed our search down to the Sienna, and specifically something around 4 years old.
We bought one in a private sale last July, and so far so good! We had a door replaced under ext warranty (check strap weld broke) and that allowed us to drive a 2011 Sienna for a week. Nice way to upsell your customer on the latest model. The only problem was the intermediate steering shaft needed to be replaced (well, it wasn’t mandatory to replace, but it mean there would be a pop or click felt in the steering wheel, and that was disconcerting) and that wasn’t under warranty.
In hindsight, we got a good deal from the private sale; but I can also see an advantage of buying it from a dealer or lot IF they provide some sort of a warranty… AND if the price is comparable. I bought it after the HST came into effect, so it made no difference who I bought it from. Another option is to go through a car broker, who at least can let you know the various blue/black book values and can find exactly what you’re looking for.
Gas mileage isn’t great, but no worse than the German cars that drink 91 Octane and have 100 L tanks! I was able to use the tether straps to anchor it to the seats, and utilize the top straps as well. We’ve had 3 cars seats and 4 adults when my sister came for a visit, so that was pretty handy. I’d say overall it’s pretty safe as there are airbags all over the place, and the carseats are properly secured.
We rigged up a portable DVD player, so we just need a stand to position it between the captain’s chairs so both kids can see it. That and a 12V cooler means we’re ready for a roadtrip! We’ve already taken it camping, and we were able to pack all our gear without a problem. The year before we packed all that stuff into the 525i, and it took all my packing and problem/puzzle solving skills to fit stuff into every available crevice… so it was nice to not have to jam stuff in.
It’s not glamorous, sexy, fast, sleek, or head turning, but it’s not meant to be. If it gets dinged, or scratched, well… it’s a minivan, and it’s meant to be used. For hauling stuff or people, safety, and comfort… it’s hard to beat. One final observation- have 2 vehicles parked at Superstore during the busiest time while it is raining sideways. One vehicle has sliding door, the other doesn’t. Next, load and strap in a fussy toddler. I’m willing to bet the sliding doors win every time.
In a few years though, I can always keep an eye out for a 911 or M3 with standard tranny, and that will be a different story altogether! 😉
New arrivals
A bit late, but congrats to my cousins who have had some new additions to the family.
First up- Jennie and Raymond had their first Dec 19th I believe- a baby GIRL named Allison.
Next, Robin and Jen had TWIN girls- Emma and Avery on Dec 29th- to go along with big sisters Caitlyn and Adria. Excellent job filling up all the seats in the mini-van. 🙂
And on Jan 1st, after 3 days of labour and a false start or two, weighing in at a solid 9lbs, 4oz- Jen and Alex Jago welcomed their BIG boy Patrick Jago into the family.
Congrats everyone! Time to update GENI
Recent kid pics
I dusted off the Canon recently (for Christmas) and started snapping a few shots. When I was shooting with film/slides, I liked to have a roll of B&W handy for certain situations. One nice thing about B&W is that you don’t have to care about AWB and I think B&W in certain shots just gives a different perspective or “feel” than the same shot in color. Anyways, it’s a lot more convenient to hit a few buttons and select “monochrome” than carry two types of film or a second camera body dedicated for B&W. For this shot, I quite by accident blurred out the Christmas tree lights in the background, but I think it adds a nice background for the shot.
For this shot of Sammo, I messed up on the AWB, but I kinda like the off tint… and this was the start of his bath so the rest of the shots would have been water spraying on the lens.
Skaping!
One day Erica comes home and while wearing socks, she does this sliding motion across the floor. I ask her what is she doing, and she says “I’m skaping!”
Our friend Tony and his daugher Isabelle have been going to the local rink near our house so we decided to give it a try… for real.
Well the day we chose was the “Skate with Santa”- translation- the place is a zoo. We managed to get E a rental (boy’s hockey skates) and got them on without too much drama. The skates seem to fit, and standing the first time was like watching a newborn deer find its legs for the first time…
The ice opens, and we waddle on up to the rink. When we got to the ice, E wouldn’t step on, and had to be encouraged. I’m wondering, ok, how am I going to do this… and trying to think back to when I first learned to skate.
I bent over, took a wide stance, and held her under her armpits. With her big helmet on, I couldn’t really see what her feet were doing, but we took it slow and tried to make our way over to the kid end of the ice. As we make our way over, I’m thinking ‘she’s kinda heavy’ and I looked down at her feet… which were lifted off the ice and tucked under like a bird in flight.
“Stand UP!”
She makes a feeble attempt at standing… and at that point I knew I had to basically carry her, bent over double, to the other end of the ice… at a snails pace.
Once we got to the other end, my back was ready for shiatsu, and as we couldn’t get a metal stand to help her learn, it basically meant holding her up and trying to help her get her balance. At that point, we’re told to get off as they needed to clean the ice. 😐
After a wait, we do the whole thing again, but this time someone saw that she was a total beginner and offered up their metal stand (yes there were kids who could skate just fine, but were using the stands for whatever reason).
From that point on, it wasn’t bad. She could stand and with Isabelle’s encouragement, get some forward progress. It was funny to watch her try to “run” with skates on rather than angle the toe out and push off… and she fell down every 20 seconds… and for me it was like picking up a 30lb sack of potatoes every 20 seconds. 🙁
Still, I think she had fun, and even got a helium balloon and candy cane from Santa out of the experience.
Yard work…
At one point we had a decision to make with our home. Do we reno the bathrooms or do we do the yard?
The yard was in ok shape, but it did have a few annoyances- first was a volkswagen sized rock in the middle of the yard, second were 5 trees in the 40-50 ft height range.
The trees definitely gave the yard privacy and a park-like feel, but at the same time they took up a lot of room, blocked a lot of sunlight, and continuously rained needles and pinecones onto the deck and grass. Here’s a few pics showing what it looked like last fall.
We decided to bring in a landscaper to see what they would recommend. Maybe take down a tree and see if we can level out the yard and bring the grass back to the point where I could practice putting on it.
The landscaper takes a look and recommends we take down the 2 trees to the east, and the one big tree on the NW corner. When they took down 1 tree, it showed signs of inner rot… and if 1 tree shows signs of rot, then there is a chance that the other trees could also be sick, yet show no outward signs of being so. Down came the trees and 2 out of 3 show signs of rot. They then recommed we take down the 2 trees by the deck.
At this point, the cost of taking down all these trees were a lot more than we had anticipated when we bought the place. The inspector said they looked ok, but it’s hard to tell without bringing in an expert. The danger is if the trees are not balanced (leaning to one side) and if they are sick, then it just takes a wind or snowstorm to knock them down… into the house.
So we decide to take them all down.
Then came winter, and the worst snowstorm in 10 years. Our yard looked like this.
In hindsight, it was a good call to take down the trees given the heavy snowfall.
When spring finally came, we had to decide what to do with the yard. Basically it was cleared out, but it was also a mess and not safe to play in.
A winter with a hyper toddler also gave us incentive to create a safe yard to boot the kids outside and burn off some energy, and save our sanity. Therefore we decided to dig up all the stumps and try to do something about that rock. We hired a backhoe to come in and do the work, and our yard ended up looking like this-
The backhoe trampled over everything, and ripped out all the stumps, but could not turn over the big rock. In the process, what little grass we had was pretty much destroyed. We then had to bring in dirt to level out the yard and lay sod.
After the sod went in, they said to water it like crazy for about 3 weeks straight. When they said water it like crazy, they weren’t kidding! If you see seams opening up between the rolls, it means that the sod is shrinking from lack of water. Luckily we had a few good days of rain, and that plus some fertilizer really helped. We probably should have added another inch or two of dirt to help level things out, but that can be done later.
Tomorrow the grass needs to be cut, and I’ll post pictures of how the yard looks after whacking down all the trees, digging up all the rocks/stumps/concrete/paving stones, and laying down new sod, which has been in for about 3 weeks now.
A lot of work, but we figure that everyone can get enjoyment from the yard. Next up- a “slip and slide”, hammock, and wading pool!
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Dan-cing
It’s been quite the weekend. First off, my family flew into town the day before Alex and Jen’s wedding. Erica was picked to be the flowergirl, and we weren’t quite sure how this was going to go down, especially since the ceremony would be during her naptime, and a lot of people will be present. I’ll save this story for a future post.
Recently, she learned the word “Dan-cing” and does this hillbilly stomp/flying seagull move whenever music is played. At home, pretty amusing. At the wedding reception, hours past her bedtime, this is what she was doing for most of the night… with
- everyone.
We tried taking her home at 10pm, but as soon as the music came back on, she pointed at the dance floor and said “Dan-cing!”
Anyways, congrats to Alex and Jen. I’ll post whatever pics I have, but it was a very genuine, funny, moving, and all-round memorable day.















