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An interesting year… so far!

Hard to believe we’re almost half way through 2008.  I keep thinking what a paradox time can be… the older you are, the faster it goes.  I also used to think that the older you get, the more stable life becomes.  You tend to have a more secure job, know who you are, and generally settle down.

I don’t know why, but it seems like the rollercoaster is speeding up and we’re about to go into free-fall!

First up, we have an accepted offer on a house!  When e started walking and entering toddlerhood, it was at that point where we outgrew our place.  Generally we love living here.  The area is really convenient, we have a lot of friends in the area, e’s daycare is around the corner, and we spent many days enjoying the views from the decks, and of course BBQs! 

We’ve been looking for a house in our neighborhood for about a couple of years, but nothing seemed to fit.  The value just wasn’t there.  For example, 600K gets you a standard lot with a small house built in the 1950’s.  Prices have just gone up and up, although they are now moderating, I don’t think we can get what we want for under 760K.  Unfortunately we had to look east in search of value, and that search took us out of Burnaby and into Coquitlam. 

Last weekend we were driving around looking at open houses, not really expecting anything as we’ve been taking drives out there for about 6 weeks to try and get to know the area better.  The first few were flips, and although nicely done up, we didn’t feel the value was there.  The last house on our list was in a Cul de sac in Harbour Place.  Couldn’t recall why I jotted it down, but we were passing on the way home so we decided to drop by. 

They say that it’s your gut feeling that tells you when it’s the “one.”  I guess it’s similar to dating… but we both got the same feeling after looking around for a few minutes.  The price was reasonable, the size, condition, layout, and yard met our criteria, even the wall color was similar to what we would have chosen.  For us, it hit all the marks except it wasn’t located beside Jericho beach.  There’s still a lot of work to do to remove the subjects, and if we get that far, I’ll post pics of the house and write more about it.  That being said, we’re now in a mad rush to get our place on the market and sold quickly.  Should be fun decluttering and moving furniture with a toddler running around!

Second bit of news is that we’re expecting our… second!  Yes we decided one was not enough work and so #2 should be arriving mid-September.  <reminder to self- exhale>  It was this that prompted us to get a realtor and fast track the house hunting as I don’t know how we’d cope with 2 in our current place.  I think the timing should work out- hopefully we can sell soon and move in by late August.  <note #2 to self- never start a new job and have a baby the same month>

So if you’re feeling up to moving boxes, I’m sure we’ll need all the help we can get!  <note #3- thou shalt not sell and move while wife is very pregnant, and especially not when there’s a very active toddler getting into everything!>

Wish us luck!  So far I haven’t changed jobs this year.  🙂 

  

Happy Easter!



Bunny ears

 Well our first long weekend of the year… started off with the yearly visitation to Forest Lawn and Ocean View.  It was certainly a nice day, and great to see everyone come and pay their respects.  For me, it was an opportunity to show Erica the names of her and Great-Grandparents and Great-Great Grandparents!  In the future, I’m looking forward to a time where I can tell her more about family that have passed on.  I can tell her with a lot of fondness about what they did, what they were like, and how a part of them lives on in us.

I find it interesting observing how visits to the cemetary change over time.  The first few years it’s very sad and solemn, but over the years I think it gradually changes to a happier occasion, remembering the good times with other family members and talking about… well life. 

As I look at the dates, it’s hard to comprehend how quickly time has passed.  I like to think that it’s a reminder to focus on the relationships and things that are happening now, and not spend too much time dwelling on the past or future.

That night, e’s nose starts running like a drippy faucet, and yep, she’s got a cold.  Poor thing can’t breathe so she wakes up all cranky. 

e with a cold

TV Deja Vu

When I was growing up, my list of favorite drama/action TV shows were something like this-

  • Bionic Man
  • Battlestar Galactica
  • Knight Rider
  • Airwolf
  • Simon and Simon/Magnum PI
  • Miami Vice

Now when I turn on the tele, instead of reruns I see reimagined versions of Bionic Woman, Battlestar Galactica, and now Knight Rider.  In the theatres, we had movie versions of The Dukes of Hazzard, Miami Vice, and Starsky and Hutch… and in an interesting reversal there’s the made for TV Terminator- Sarah Conner Chronicles and I believe an upcoming Star Wars series.

Is it possible that we’re running out of creativity, and simply rehashing old ideas, or are TV shows like fashion- acid wash jeans and pastel colors get recycled after a couple of generations when everyone has forgotten what a bad idea they were in the first place.

It seems odd to me to see the same shows appear on TV again.  I have happy childhood memories of the originals, so why do they need to bring the shows back to try the formula again?  For whatever reason, the remakes are often shadows of the original.  Sorry, but Starsky and Hutch was a joke, I couldn’t bring myself to see Dukes of Hazzard, and Miami Vice was just ok, but none lived up to the original. 

Don’t get me wrong, I thought that the reimagination of Battlestar Galactica was waaay better than the original… once you got past the fact that Starbuck is now a girl.  Likewise with  Terminator- I actually really like it- it’s clever and they’ve put a new spin on it.  I hope it gets renewed.

As for the new Knight Rider and Bionic woman.  Boooring.  I hope the old Kitt comes out of retirement and shows the new Kitt some old school moves.

Infant to Toddler

Apparently there’s a difference between an Infant and a Toddler, and the line is drawn at 18 months old.  Honestly, I had no idea what the difference is… they’re all babies aren’t they? 

 Well e turned 18 months a few days ago, and I think I understand the difference.  With an Infant, you pretty much carry them around, watch them crawl, waddle, take some steps, etc.  They observe things and interact with a lot of curiosity.

 Lately we’ve been adding new phrases to our vocabulary:

 “Put that down!”  “Don’t poke yourself with the fork”  “Stop chasing the cats!”  “Why are you squishing your food”  “Hey, where are you going?  Come back here!” “Who turned off the computer?!” “Don’t open the cupboard and put the Tabasco sauce back!”

Yeah I think we know the difference now.  It’s like with her new found mobility, she’s continuously scanning the counter and table tops for interesting things to grab and experiment with.  She loves to grab a pen, spoon, anything that extends her reach… and uses it to poke, tap, drum, or fetch things.  Now she’s able to act on her curiousity, whereas when she was an Infant, she was pretty curious, but more passively so.  It’s interesting to watch her develop at this stage, but it also means parenting has taken on a very active aspect!

taking a walk with neighbours

Mealtime

Getting ready for camping

So we haven’t gone camping since 2005.  Once in awhile I’ll come across some of our camping gear and reminisce, or make a trip out to MEC to check out some “clothes for baby”

Over Christmas as I was pondering what to get for Erica, I came across a kids tent in a flyer.  I remember that I loved to play in enclosed spaces- a big box for example, and I figured this is something she would like that doesn’t need batteries.  And of course, when we go camping for real, she’d be acclimatized to staying in a tent.  So I bought her 2 tents with a connecting tunnel. 

I also forgot another fact- cats like enclosed spaces too…  🙂

Stairclimbing/cat chasing

One “negative” (from Mocha’s point of view) about Erica’s newfound mobility is that he’s now an interesting thing to chase around.

She’s gotten the hang of going up, but coming down is another matter… hasn’t quite figured out gravity yet…

Erica at lunchtime

Here’s another video of her drinking milk from a sippy cup and eating a sandwich- showing independance and improving motor skills, and we’re just glad she’s able to feed herself.  Next step is to train her to open the fridge to make her own sandwiches…