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Baby T +2 days

We went to the hospital today for another non-stress test and ultrasound. Baby and mom-to-be are both well. From the ultrasound, we saw that the baby is head down and in the proper position. The heart is beating 135-160 beats per minute, which is fine.

Yesterday we had the “spicy” wings from KFC. Verdict- not spicy enough. We had to douse them in tabasco to even register 1 chile. Definitely not going there for wings again.

So everything looks good, it’s just that baby isn’t ready to come out yet. Back for more monitoring tomorrow.

Tuesdays with Morrie

A couple of years ago, my sister gave me this book for Christmas. It’s a short, easy to read story about Morrie Schwartz- a professor and one of his students- Mitch Albom. The book is written by Mitch, and recounts the beginning of their friendship at College, through to the last days of Morrie’s life.

I don’t want to ruin too much of the story, so I’ll talk about what I’ve learned from it.

Life can be very confusing and complicated. It’s full of difficult decision that we all have to face- what’s my purpose? what should I study in school? why am I unhappy in my relationship? should I date/marry? what should I do for a living? what will I do if I don’t get…? what will I do if my plans don’t work out?

The list of questions go on…

In the book, Morrie and Mitch talk about life through specific topics- relationships, family, purpose, aging, forgiveness, and death. I think the magic of this book is how Morrie keeps things simple, and breaks things down to the essentials. Most of what he says on a topic fills no more than a few pages, but after reading what he had to say… well I’ll leave it up to you to read his words and see what I mean.

The other great thing about the book is that it’s for everyone. Doesn’t matter what your age, race, or religious background is, the stuff he talks about is universal. Needless to say, the lessons from the book has, I hope, made me and other readers a better person. I highly recommend it.

Melissa, bless her heart, saw that they made the book into a play at the Arts Club on Granville Island. We were interested in seeing how the book was interpreted into a play, so we invited a few friends out to see it… on a Tuesday. 🙂

The stage and props- a couple of chairs, a bed, and a small table. Two actors. Simple and minimal. The result exceeded our expectations. We thought they did a fantastic job of capturing the essence of the book.

The actors played the roles with conviction, charm, and humor. I honestly don’t know how they can rise up and give that level of performance night after night. At the end of the play, all I could hear was dead silence and the sound of noses blowing. Needless to say, an enthusiastic standing ovation from a packed house awaited the actors. It’s held over til August 26th, so please see it with your loved ones… young or old.

http://www.artsclub.com/

Baby countdown- T +1…

So we’re a day past the due date, but as we’ve been advised, it’s not uncommon among first time parents to be a few days late. Doc Wong says we have 80% chance of going into labor within 7 days of our due date. Plus, baby has no idea of what a due date is, so it’ll come when it’s good and ready.

However E is ready to get baby out. There’s a lot of people (and pets) waiting to meet the little one, so we keep reminding it.

Our strategy yesterday to hasten this event was to go for a walk and try to shake the baby out.

Today, I’m going to KFC for some hotwings and spicy chicken- the eviction notice has been officially posted. 🙂

E is doing well- she’s taking her naps in the late afternoon which is good. With all the family events over the past 3 weeks, she probably hasn’t gotten all the rest she’s needed.

It’s a bit surreal now that we’re past our due date. Surreal in the sense that we were looking forward to the August 14th date for so long. The thinking is that by that date, we’ll be parents. Now it’s a little different… by tomorrow morning, by friday, or by next week we could be parents.

I hope this doesn’t mean we have one of those rebound kids that refuses to leave home when they reach adulthood. :-

Due to overwhelming demand (read:complaints)

we’re moving our Blog from MySpace to BlogSpot. Part of it is the UI, part of it is difficulty in linking and anonymous comments… and the other part is I don’t want to be a beta tester for Microsoft.

What I’ll do is move all the old posts from MySpace and retire the other site.

In the future I might look at other options. Lester’s put the idea in my head of leasing my very own domain name and hosting the site for me… but that’s a future project.

Or there’s the web space that comes with our shaw account. For that you use MS Frontpage and ftp up your changes.

Baby in T -0… no liftoff? posted Aug 14th

Our due date is here, but no baby yet. We’re off to see the doc this afternoon for a regularly scheduled appointment, so we’ll get the scoop on what’s happening then.

E is a bit restless and tired of being preggy. We’re ready to meet Peanut!

Update- we went to see Dr. Wong, and waited an hour to get in. I think they were a little surprised that nothing has happened yet, but will wait for labour to start naturally. We’re scheduled to go to Burnaby General on Wednesday for BP, non-stress test, and ultrasound. Based on those results, we’ll decide what to do next. Hopefully we won’t have to be induced.

Mars close to Earth Aug 27th. it was… in 2003. posted Aug 11th

2003- I’ve been seeing a few emails about Mars being extremely close to Earth this August 27th, so much that it appears as large as the moon… and having got into astronomy awhile ago, this sounded pretty impossible. It is… http://urbanlegends.about.com/library/bl_mars_encounter.htm

However with our 6″ Dobsonian from Skywatcher, we can get pretty good views of Saturn and Jupiter… and that’s with all the light and atmospheric pollution from the city! It’s pretty surreal to see Saturn’s ring with your own eyes, and you can clearly see 4 or Jupiter’s moons. The 90mm Maksutov (also from Skywatcher) isn’t bad either, it’s much more portable and you can almost get as much detail as the much larger Dob.

Haven’t tracked down Mercury, Venus, or Mars yet, but will get to it one clear night. 🙂

Baby non-stress test- everythings ok! posted Aug 10th

So Dr. Wong ordered a non-stress test, which we didn’t know for what reason or if it’s standard procedure. After running around Burnaby General, and e getting very stressed, we finally got into a birthing suite for the test. Note to self, always go to ADMITTING before going to the specific department.

E was on a bed and a couple of monitors was put on her belly- one for fetal heart rate, and the other I’m not sure. Maybe the other emits some sort of a signal. The test took about 20 min. E had a clicker which she clicked everytime she felt movement. The information was logged to something like an EKG paper readout… you know, like those 70’s Earthquake movies where shockwaves are recorded… it’s also similar to those lie detectors you see on TV.

Baby must have been napping cuz there was not much kicking. You can see the babies heartrate on one line, another line records e’s clicks, and a third line recorded (I’m assuming) when the other sensor emitted whatever it emits.

I think the whole thing is to see if the baby is under any stress- but our baby seemed to be pretty relaxed, and the heartrate pretty steady.

The nurse said that this test was given to babies who are overdue, or are underweight. E is eating “quite well” and the last sonogram on July 31st put the baby at over 6lbs… so things are looking good so far.

Vonage and Skype and bears, oh my! -posted Aug 10

A year ago, we had Telus as our landline and mobile provider. We were paying almost $80/month for communication.

Then we switched to a combo package from Sprint, and that dropped our cost to $66/month. Sprint Canada then was bought out by Rogers, so our landline was switched to Rogers and wireless to Fido.

Hmm, $66/month… seemed kinda high for the amount of use we get out of it.

So now that E is on mat leave, we decided to see if we can save $$ by switching the mobile to Pay-As-You go and the landline to Vonage/Skype.

For the mobile, as long as we keep our minutes to around 100 min a month, our cost ends up being $15/month at .15 minute. The main thing is to remind e that the mobile isn’t for prolonged conversations, but there is an option to switch to a different evening and weekend rate for .01 a minute, but it’s like .40 minute regular time. Good thing is that there’s no additional system access fee.

For the “landline” we’re trying a combination of Vonage and Skype. Vonage leverages our Shaw hi-speed and we pay $20/month for 500 minutes anywhere in North America. I will say that the transition to Vonage from Rogers was ok, but there are some gotchas and limitations to be aware of.

First, you need an adaptor that plugs into your Router. The adapter comes free, and you can use your existing phones. The limitation is that you cannot use the existing phone wiring and jacks. The adapter comes with a single jack in the back, and you can plug in any phone. If you need multiple phones, you need a splitter (cheap $5 part) that allows you to connect multiple phones. All this is pretty useless if you just have regular phones, but what we ended up doing was using cordless phones. We plugged both bases into the adaptor, and have one handset upstairs, one handset downstairs. It’s a bit of a hassle remembering to recharge, but there are other cordless phones with mulitiple handsets and bases that use just one jack.

If you don’t have a router, you can buy a combo router/adapter made by Linksys I believe.

Second, if you goto vonage.ca and sign up for everything, they will charge you $10 for S/H, and $40 activation fee. If you CALL vonage to do the same thing, they automatically waive the activation fee. We did everything over the web like good citizens, and called back to complain about this double standard. They credited us the $40. On another note, their customer service is… just ok. Response time on the weekend was acceptable, and they did help, but I think there’s definitely room for improvement.

Third, Rogers called back to try and save the account. They offered a $30/month rate good for a year. After explaining that it’s still more expensive than Vonage, and what happens after the year, and why didn’t they offer this rate to begin with… well they didn’t have a good answer. They tried to compare their VOIP Rogers Home phone solution, which is like $50/month after the promo ends- you get this feature and that, dedicated line for reliability and voice quality. Their solution makes use of your existing phones and wiring, but they need to drill and install a box somewhere to tap into the lines. Anyways, the Home phone solution might make sense if you call Long distance regularly, but with Skype and Phone cards, it’s pretty cheap.

Back to Vonage. Their voice quality was a bit shaky the first call we made, kinda like a cell phone in spotty coverage, but it’s been pretty solid since. The adapter has status lights to let you know what’s going on. I had to reset the device once, and it’s been good ever since. Voice quality isn’t bad. Kinda like a cell phone in regular coverage. So far, so good.

For the case where we’re running out of minutes or need to call somewhere other than North America, we also signed up for a Skype account. “derekandevonne. lau” We tried it with our Logitech speakers and microphone, and it was ok. Just a bit weird listening to someone talk over your speakers. I found a wireless handset that connects via USB AND regular phone line. It’s a VTech, and sells at Futureshop for $99. The nice thing is that it works with Vonage or Skype. If I want to make a call via Skype, I enter the number and hit a specific button. If I want to make a call via Vonage, same thing only I hit a different button. I had a couple of 50 min+ conf calls to Bangalore that I used Skype for, and it was good enough and reliable enough that I forgot I was using skype. No echo or dropped words. Skype Out is free until the end of the year, but it’s been good enough that I’ll pay for the service. Charges for long distance are very cheap.

The only gripe is the USB software that allows the phone to connect to the Skype client. It sometimes “loses” connection, so that if Skype is running on your computer, your handset which is connected via USB, may not be aware that it’s up and running. There’s a utility that can be run to check status, and it will detect that something has lost connection. It doesn’t happen that often, and a reboot will quickly set things right.

Baby in T -5 days… – posted Aug 9th

It’s 7:11pm, and I’m munching on a pickled egg. I haven’t had one in years, and it sure brings back memories of my childhood. I must say it is very good, and I can see how my Dad can eat a dozen.

So far we’re on track…

1) we bought and assembled an Ikea dresser/change table, which I happily dragged up the stairs from our parking garage. Nothing cures a sore back like carrying a dresser. :- I remember an Amazing race episode where couples had to assemble Ikea furniture at the factory. I think we’ve put enough of these things together to attain a black belt in Ikea furniture assembly.

2) Crib has been assembled and is now in the corner of the room (Thanks GB!)

3) Just finished painting the room- 2 coats of Benjamin Moore. It’s a light cucumber green, inspired from e’s jar of cucumber facial scrub. A side note about painting. My painting skills are such that I can say BM makes a good product that even I can get good results. We tried Ralph Lauren paint, and after 2 coats, it just didn’t look as smooth and rich as the BM. In hindsight, we probably should have hired a BM color consultant to come in and pick 3 or 4 colors for the entire place. Not that we’re unhappy with the colors we chose, it’s just that we chose them one at a time and could have saved ourselves hours of endless debate and looking at color swatches.

4) Shampoo’d the carpets. After going through this process and seeing what this thing picks up that the Vacuum doesn’t… go for hardwood or laminate… especially if you have pets. I’m guessing this extends to kids.

5) Mom has saved all our plants by repotting them and repositioning them on our front deck, so they get sun in the AM, and cool shade for the rest of the day. I got a mint plant from my Grandpa’s garden, so the next step is a nice Mojito recipe! MmmmmMMm!

E is doing well, she went to Spa Utopia with Mom and AJ. Mom had her belated massage (mother’s day and b-day gift) while E and AJ had pedicures. Baby is active, but more squirming than kicking. I guess there’s not a lot of room in there. Her bags are packed, except she couldn’t find a copy of this month’s InStyle magazine. Hopefully we can get some good light to take some pics tomorrow after the doc’s appt.

Pig's feet- yum yum! -posted August 8th

So in keeping with the culinary theme, today we went to Chinatown to purchase the items for pigs feet. Pigs feet, for those that are utterly confused by this topic, is a traditional dish that preggy women eat after birth.

It consists of:

– 1/2 bottle of Black rice vinegar sauce
– 2-3lbs Ginger. keep them whole, but take a knife to put a few slices in to increase surface area.
– big jug ($32 worth) Sweet vinegar (rice wine vinegar, sugar, cloves, cinnamon, rice, ginger, and orange peel)
– 7lbs ($9) of pig’s feet (boiled first to cleanse, then rinse with cold water)
– 24 peeled hard boiled eggs. Yes 24!

Using a clay pot over medium heat, put ginger in with the vinegar to cover all the ginger. Bring to boil. Dump in the pre-boiled and most importantly, cleaned pig’s feet. Let simmer over low heat hours and hours until it’s softened… but not over cooked (like it’s falling apart)

Then you toss in the eggs and let it sit in the big pot. Then you can enjoy weeks of pickled eggs, ginger, and feet. The vinegar is a base that keeps for a long time, so you can keep adding boiled eggs, ginger, and pig’s feet…

I think this stuff is high in calcium and protein, which is much needed by the new mother. Ginger is good for digestion.

Segue- for those who are sensitive to the plight of animals, read no further….

ok, this reminds me of a story Jed told when he was in China. Basically he led a group of BC teenagers through rural China. In a certain part there was a certain market where you can buy all sorts of animals and seafood- all live and fresh. Needless to say, there’s no such thing as SPCA in China… so these kids came across this pig in a cage lying traumatized on its back. Why was it on its back? Because apparently if you want Pig’s feet in China, you don’t necessarily have to take the rest of it. So here’s this poor traumatized pig with 4 bandaged stumps being stared at by a group of traumatized teens. Jed tells this story with a lot more detail… ugh, I think I lost my appetite for pig’s feet.