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    Baby personality

    September 1st, 2006 by dlau

    Here’s an interesting thing we read from the Baby Whisperer.

    From the first few days of life, you can see clues as to what type of baby you have. The types are:

    1) Angel
    2) Textbook
    3) Touchy
    4) Spirited
    5) Grouchy

    The labels are pretty descriptive, so I won’t go into detail as to what they mean.

    As with most personality tests, the categories are not mutually exclusive. There are 20 multiple choice questions that are answered by both parents to generate a raw score for each category.

    E and I both answered the questions, and came out with very similar results so at least we both agree what e is like.

    Drumroll… apparently we have a mostly Textbook baby, with some Spirited Angelic qualities thrown in. So she’s fairly predictable- we can calm her down as long as we figure out what it is she needs, and she’s pretty good natured. Loud noises, new environments, and strangers don’t really startle her.

    So here’s the interesting thing. The author states that these traits are evident later on in life, even well into adolescence and beyond. So can your baby personality be a strong predictor to what you are likely to be later in life?

    My little experiment was to ask my mum to read the 5 descriptions, and apply them to myself and Vennie. Mum described Vennie as being an “Angel” while I was a “Touchy” baby. Sigh, still to this day my Sister still have my parents completely swindled…

    Ok, so the book says that an Angel baby has an easy going disposition and easily adapts to structure. Is this my sister today? I’ll let those who know her decide that, however my Mum now says the roles have reversed. As Adults, she’s the touchy one while I’m now the Angel. :->

    As for Touchy babies, they need a structured, predictable routine. Hmm, I will admit that I work best when my day is structured, and I would say my sister is better at adapting to change.

    This isn’t to say that I must have tri-color pasta with meat sauce every Wednesday at 6:25pm, but I think this is an interesting spin on the Nature vs Nurture discussion. The book’s view is that a lot of our personality is due to our environment and upbringing, but there seems to be a base portion of our behaviour that is set in our genes.

    I’m sure this will generate a lot of discussion among parents, especially those who have (supposedly) finished raising their kids. :)

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    2 weeks old…

    September 1st, 2006 by dlau

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    It’s been quite the first two weeks of life for Erica… and her parents!

    We’ve had a few visits with our Doctor, the public health nurses, and everything’s fine. She’s eating, sleeping, and gaining weight like a little piglet.

    From the photos, she’s changed quite a bit over those two weeks. Her facial features are starting to become more developed and defined, and there’s no more “conehead” We’re still not sure where she got some of her features, but time will tell.

    As for her parents, we’re definitely learning on the job. Our resume currently reads something like this:

    Baby skills

    - able to sterilize baby feeding equipment
    - able to correctly assemble and test aforementioned equipment for leakage
    - able to mix formula at 4am using one bleary eye.
    - inproving burping technique
    - able to change diapers (even extremely messy ones) and control own gagging reflex
    - able to give baby a bath without needing to shower off afterwards
    - able to burrito wrap baby ’straight-jacket’ style.
    - insert and extricate baby from carseat
    - ability to detect pee and/or poopy diapers at 10 paces

    Walking into a place like baby’s world or babies r us, there’s an insane amount of “baby stuff” for consumers. Thinking back to my own childhood and asking my mum, we didn’t have all this stuff growing up. This leads me to wonder if my generation (and generations past) just didn’t need it, or is all this stuff really advancing child-rearing?

    Take strollers for example. Back in the day, I don’t recall my baby stroller having knobby inflatable tires, quick release wheels, caliper brakes, independant rear suspension, or a drink holder. Mind you. I also don’t recall ever wearing a seatbelt or using a carseat in my Dads Oldsmobile Cutlass either…

    I can say that we have a few items that have made a difference. Erica’s Aunt Vennie went baby crazy and got her all this great stuff, but that’s another topic. So here’s what we found very useful so far:

    - Ergo baby carrier. This thing can carry the baby in the front or back. If the baby is in the front, she can face out or in; and for infants, can be carried in an insert so that she is sitting down with her legs out one side. It’s like riding a 10 speed bike and having your passenger sit on the top tube sideways. I carried Aston around in it for awhile, and didn’t really feel the weight. That’s all the endorsement it needs. :)
    - My BrestFriend nursing pillow. Imagine a world where you have an instant table strapped around your midsection. It’s adjustable so you can have baby at the proper height, and if your waist is 24″ or 42″, it doesn’t matter. I think this is only scratching the surface of its potential. After Erica is done breastfeeding, I intend to see what other uses it may hold. Just think of the possibilities! If you want to eat a TV dinner- who needs a TV dinner tray? How many times have you wanted to open up your laptop, but couldn’t find space on the dinner table? How about the times when you play Halo, and you just need somewhere to rest your elbows?
    - Electric breast pump. E just told me to put this on the list.
    - LOST- Season 1. We took our time to get on the bandwagon, but I’ve been very impressed with the stories and production quality of the show. Kinda like Twin Peaks meets Gilligan’s Island. Anyways, it’s a great way to pass the time when you’re waiting for baby to finish feeding and fall asleep. On a side note, if I had watched the show sooner, Erica may well have been named Evangeline. :)

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